Monday, November 16, 2009
Rules of Disagreeing With The Spouse
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Understand I’m no psychiatrist only what I learned over the years. I was talking with a female friend of mine and she started complaining about her spouse. They had a argument and she says she threatens to move out. I ask “why would you say that”.
She replied “I wanted to hurt him”.
Again I asked “why”.
“He made me mad” she said (sound familiar).
“Yea, but you love him right” I replied.
She said “Yes”
The conversation went on and we came to my ways of disagreeing with the spouse. I wished I followed during my first marriage.
- It’s okay to disagree, however remember you still love each other.
- Stick to the point. No need to be hurtful or bring up past mistakes.
- It’s okay to get mad, but no reason to stay mad for a couple of hours or longer.
- Always be respectful, this is the person you love
